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Masturbation can be totally daunting. I also get frustrated by how easily I can get thrown off course, or about how particular I am with my environment. Ultimately, though, I feel happy to have one reliable way to get myself off. I know from my experience as an educator that there are many, many others who have yet to find a way they like to do it. When we take the time to explore on our own, though, both our solo and partnered sex lives benefit. Exhibit A: I need intense pressure or vibration to get off, but my sexual partners for the first five years of my sex life only executed light, fluttery rubs and tickles or suction-y cunnilingus — which I hated. No two people like the same things.
Porn isn't exactly famed for its realism. Women masturbate with legs splayed and backs arched, orgasming after a few minutes of frantic rubbing and moaning. But in reality, those positions aren't necessarily the most conducive to pleasure for women.
Screw manicures and blowouts: Masturbation is the ultimate act of self-care. You might think I'm crazy -- but you need to get in touch with yourself before you can get in touch with anyone else. Before spicing up your relationship, worry about spicing up your self-love. Here are some incredible masturbation positions you never knew you needed. Why it works: Sex against the wall can be hot, but it's pretty complicated. Meanwhile, masturbating against the wall is just plain sexy. Plus, blood rushes to your genitals while standing and this makes for better orgasms. How to do it: Stand facing the wall. Spread your legs slightly and lean forward against the wall, forming an "L" shape while using one hand for balance. What you'll need: Bullet vibrator or fingers.