And there's a story I'm going to look again for too. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. I read through a few of the LDS. Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest.
We generally don't talk on the phone, but text a few times throughout the week. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. Work on myself, not him. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse.