You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. They know that they are the best. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. Thank you so much. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. That settles it for me. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon.
First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. I have two babies, 3 months and 3 years old and I believe they probably think my dr husband is an uncle or a distance relative bc their daddy was away for fellowship for over a yr and now away bc of his job. Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today. If you can't deliver it in person, put in an envelope and mail it to me.
When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives.